Men and women think and express themselves very differently. To win her back, you’ve probably tried sending flowers or swearing she’s the only one for you. Guess what? Those tired ploys and devises won’t work. Why? Because in trying to win her back, in trying to reconnect with her, you are not thinking outside the relationship box. You’re going about this like a man. That’s why you need The Ex Recovery System; the sociologically proven method was repairing and reconnecting with your former love.
The first reason that should push you to want to get back together with your ex is the fact that you yourself want to get back together. If you are unwilling, or if you even have doubts about it, then getting back with your ex is probably not the best thing for you to do. You will only end up breaking up once again. It is difficult to make a relationship work if you are not willing to make it work in the first place, so make sure that your heart is set on getting back together with your ex. If your ex is giving you signs that she wants to get back together, such as talking about your past relationship or wanting to go on dates with you still even after you’re broken up, then that is an indication that your ex probably still wants to get back together with you.
Wanting to get back together relies not only on your decision, but also relies on your ex’s, especially since it takes both of you to make the relationship work. If one party is not willing to get back together, then the entire process won’t probably work. Getting back together with your ex requires that both of you need to be willing to resolve whatever issues you have in your relationship that caused you to have problems and break up. If you and your ex are expressing that you are both willing to sit down and talk and try to fix your issues and come up with a resolution for them, then that is a good indication that you might be able to successfully get back together.
Almost every person who has been in a relationship knows that it takes a few things to get somebody who broke up with you to want to get back together again. People can use a number of tricks and techniques to get their ex back into their life and back in a relationship, however, not all of these tricks work, and sometimes, can actually cause you to ruin your chances of getting back together.
Showing your ex that you are very eager to get back together can be an indication that you are becoming more desperate in your actions, and is a good repellant for a lot of exes. If you don’t want to push your ex away, avoid being too eager to get back together by throwing yourself at him, or by simply trying to please him too much to the point that you are willing to do everything that your ex will ask of you, regardless if it’s against your better judgment or not.
Being too friendly with an ex can be a problem, especially since you will always be harboring romantic feelings for your ex. By being too friendly with your ex will only expose you to some unwanted situations that you may not want to deal with while both of you are broken up. Keep in mind that normal rules that apply to couples don’t apply to you anymore, so you might be caught in awkward moments that can lead you to do some ill-advised actions, such as acting like a jerk towards your ex’s suitors. This will only put you in a bad light with your ex, and might actually ruin your chances to get back together. Forcing your ex to get jealous by dating another man or woman will not make your ex want to get back together with you, but rather, it can drive your ex away from you and into the arms of another.